Proven Responses for Women

Ladies, let’s face it – we’ve all been there. You’re innocently scrolling through your social media feed, and ding! – there it is, the infamous “Hi” message. You know the one, the unmistakable opener to yet another round of flirtatious back-and-forth. While it can be flattering at times, dealing with these “Hi” wanderers can quickly become exhausting.

But fret not, for I’ve been in your shoes, experimented with a few texts, and stumbled upon one that’s proven to work like a charm every single time, no matter which platform you’re on. So, what’s the magic phrase? It’s both simple and genius:

“It’s been hectic with my family & kids. Nobody tells you this kids are a lot of work. People don’t believe when I tell them that I even have two kids.”

Sounds innocuous, right? But it’s a powerhouse of a response. I know what you’re thinking – why would anyone bring up their family and kids in a flirty conversation? Well, here’s the kicker: it works like a charm.


Now, let’s talk about why this works like a charm. Men, in general (not all, of course), who are online for some light-hearted banter tend to recoil at the mention of responsibility and babies. Your response takes them off guard, revealing a side of you that’s more focused on family life than casual flirting. It’s funny, unexpected, and, as I’ve found, incredibly effective.

Remember, the “Hi” wanderers might persist, but they’ll likely find someone else to engage with after this response. And for those genuinely interested in getting to know you beyond the surface, this will open up more meaningful conversations.

So, next time you’re met with a “Hi” that makes you roll your eyes, don’t hesitate to unleash the power of the family and kids card. It’s funny, it’s real, and it works – at least it has for me. Happy flirting, or should I say, happy deterring! πŸ˜‰